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A Life-Changing Lesson

  • By President Matt Proctor
  • Published 12 15, 2022
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This is the story of a tall, dark-haired German鈥 short, Missouri redhead鈥 big, silver dishwasher...and a life-changing lesson.

Have you heard the crazy theory called 鈥渘ominative determinism鈥濃攖he idea that some folks are attracted to certain jobs because of their name? These actual people serve as examples:

  • A Wisconsin firefighter named鈥es McBurney.
  • An Australian ophthalmologist named鈥r. Seawright.
  • A Detroit music teacher named鈥s. C. Sharpe.
  • A New York lawyer named鈥ue Yoo.
  • My favorite fitting name: OCC鈥檚 cafeteria manager is鈥eresa Baker! (The Missouri redhead in our story.)

Teresa Baker really is an excellent baker鈥攕he once owned her own catering company. But if the word Teacher were a last name, that might fit her even better. OCC鈥檚 student employees can tell you: Teresa鈥檚 kitchen is a classroom, and school is always in session. I need your help to equip that聽classroom, but first, the tall, dark-haired German鈥

That would be Thomas Mergel. When he came to the U.S. as a German high school exchange student, Thomas lived with some Ozark grads and met Jesus. He ended up enrolling at Ozark in 2014. (When the lanky, 6鈥5鈥 freshman stayed with our family over Christmas break, he sang 鈥淪ilent Night鈥 for us in the original German.) So鈥hy is he still an Ozark student now, eight years later?

College students struggle with time management. They skip study time for friends, sleep, and movies鈥攚hich often lowers their academic marks. (I saw a dorm room poster that said, 鈥淭ype in 鈥楴etflix鈥 to get 50% off your grades.鈥) Thomas was no exception: working consistently and fulfilling responsibilities were challenges. He wasn鈥檛 ready for the discipline of college, so he left Ozark for a few years.

But now he鈥檚 back as a student, and Thomas鈥 best teacher might be Teresa Baker. When she鈥檚 not at Ozark, Teresa is helping her husband Ron on their farm鈥攈ogs, cattle, grain, lots of chores. She can鈥檛 be more than 5鈥3鈥 tall, but as Shakespeare wrote, 鈥淭hough she be little, she is fierce.鈥 鈥淪he鈥檚 got a strong old-fashioned work ethic,鈥 says OCC cook Kyle Kleespies, and since 2010, she鈥檚 brought that work ethic to the Ozark cafeteria.

Students love her. 鈥淏eing hungry college boys, my cousin Jake and I had a selfish motive at first,鈥 says recent grad Josiah Weece. 鈥淲e thought, 鈥業f we talk to the cafeteria lady, maybe we鈥檒l get extra food.鈥欌

But a real friendship quickly blossomed. 鈥淪he鈥檚 not the stereotypical Hollywood cafeteria lady鈥攆rumpy, grumpy, more grunts than conversation,鈥 says Josiah. 鈥淭eresa鈥檚 all hugs and smiles. She would ask about your day, and you felt seen and heard. She even came to my wedding.鈥

Feeding 500 folks a day takes a team, and Teresa shows the same love to her student employees. 鈥淪he runs a tight ship, but she cares about us,鈥 says student worker Emily Todd. 鈥淲hen we鈥檙e having a rough day, she checks on us鈥hen remembers to ask again a week later. When we鈥檙e running behind in the dish room, she jumps in and washes dishes with us. One time, I got hurt, and she drove me to the doctor.鈥

Like our profs, Teresa knows she鈥檚 shaping students into servants: 鈥淲e lean hard into prayer together. As we鈥檙e working, Leah [caf staff] sets Scripture cards on the kitchen counter for student-employees to read and meditate on. And we鈥檙e teaching them skills that aren鈥檛 just for the cafeteria, but for their future ministries and families.鈥 Keep reading to learn how she shaped that tall, dark-haired German鈥

Since returning to Ozark, Thomas Mergel has worked in the cafeteria, mostly at the industrial-sized silver dishwasher. Watching Teresa, Thomas has certainly learned that a leader cares. 鈥淪he is gracious and hospitable鈥攕he鈥檚 invited us over to her house. One time she took James [a student worker from India] and me to an Amish market with her grandkids. She listens and loves.鈥

But Thomas is a biblical communication major, and Teresa is also teaching him skills he鈥檒l need in ministry:

  • Thomas鈥 time management challenges? 鈥淲hen she heard I was behind on homework, she sat down to help me. She called one of my professors to tutor me, and she worked with me to create a study schedule.鈥
  • Struggles fulfilling responsibilities? 鈥淲hen I started, I had a hard time consistently appearing for work. Teresa sat me down and said, 鈥楨very role on this team is important, and we don鈥檛 schedule you if we don鈥檛 need you. You can鈥檛 let down the team.鈥
  • Lessons on how to treat people? 鈥淲hen people drop their dishes off at my washing window, they sometimes say, 鈥楾hank you.鈥 Teresa put up a sign to remind me to say, 鈥榊ou鈥檙e welcome.鈥欌
  • Motivation? 鈥淪he wants us to work with excellence. Next to our clock-in, she put Colossians 3:23, 鈥榃hatever you do, work at it with all heart, as working for the Lord, not for men鈥t is the Lord Christ you are serving.鈥欌

Speaking of fitting names: in German, Thomas鈥 last name Mergel refers to a 鈥渇ertile type of soil,鈥 and the seeds Teresa has planted in Thomas are bearing fruit. 鈥淚鈥檝e done well this semester,鈥 says Thomas. 鈥淚鈥檓 more consistent with my schoolwork, we鈥檙e serving more people in the cafeteria than ever, and I鈥檝e even made suggestions on improving our dishwashing efficiency that Teresa has implemented.鈥

A tall, dark-haired German鈥 short, Missouri redhead鈥 big, silver dishwasher鈥nd Thomas will tell you: the lessons have been life-changing.

Teresa has seen fruit in other students like Thomas. 鈥淚 have a stack of notes at home kids have sent me through the years. They are treasures.鈥 She鈥檚 not listed as faculty, but Teresa鈥檚 kitchen has been a life-changing classroom for many. Will you help me equip that classroom for future students?

The dishwasher where Thomas Mergel works needs replaced. Our repairman has kept it patched together, but recently said, 鈥淚t鈥檚 time to get a new one.鈥

Over Christmas break, we鈥檙e scheduled to have a new dishwasher installed at a cost of $27,000. We鈥檙e also installing a much-needed charbroiler/grill at a cost of $10,000. Would you consider a year-end gift toward that $37,000 to equip our kitchen with a dishwasher and charbroiler/grill?

By the way, my own last name Proctor? In England, a proctor is a 鈥渉igh university official.鈥 (Maybe 鈥渘ominative determinism鈥 isn鈥檛 crazy after all.) As the 鈥渉igh university official鈥 here at Ozark, one of my jobs is enlisting financial support for our mission. So I鈥檒l ask once more: Would you prayerfully consider a generous gift toward our Christmas break installation of a dishwasher and charbroiler/grill?

Thank you for considering such a gift. Not only will you help feed 500 of our 700 students, but for a few dozen student-employees like Thomas, you鈥檒l also help teach them skills they鈥檒l need in ministry.

Can I mention one last fitting name? 鈥淵ou are to give him the name Jesus because he will save his people from their sins.鈥 (Matt 1:21) This Christmas, let鈥檚 celebrate our Savior! And Teresa Baker might remind us: when it鈥檚 time to do Christmas dinner dishes let鈥檚 pick up a dish towel and imitate our Savior.

Yours in Christ,

Matt Proctor
President

P.S. Teresa is retiring at the end of this year, and her cook, OCC alum Kyle Kleespies, will take her place: 鈥淗e鈥檚 coming in so ready.鈥 Would you pray for Kyle as he carries on her work of food preparation and ministry preparation?

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